A graduate of electrical engineer, an undeniable car stuffs enthusiast, a funny friend, a serious adult and a sweet husband.
My husband does things that surprises,entertains,annoys me and make me happy.
He says words that can leave me in wonder, leave me blank, leave me shaking my head or send me to heavens.
You see, my man is a mix of many opposing traits. He loves noisy,hard music but he wouldnt blink while watching a mushy soap opera with me. I always have to remind him to wear his bedroom slippers but he would charge my cellphone without me asking for it.
He will not yield to me when he dislikes something that I want, but he does domestic tasks like washing and folding clothes, making the bed,doing dishes and making breakfast.
He has a short temper and gets frustrated at me many times but he never has a problem of saying ” I love you” every now and then. He may look all serious but he hugs and kisses freely and does goofy things with me.
He’d watch car videos on youtube all night but I’d be surprised that he has learned the bedtime songs that I sing to our daughter.
Writing this make me realize that it is not the bliss of courtship and the cloud nines of early marriage that determines the quality of a married life. Marriage is actually what we do and say everyday,It is never perfect but it is always the companionship in it that we seek, we may always have opposing traits with our partners but
Our distinct personalities make up the many moods of our daily life.
And in our household, everyday is always a lovely scene.